Not so silly season

Here's my August article:

In the media, August is in 'silly season' - the time of year when the news is full of frivolous stories because Parliament is not sitting, and so there is not as much 'important' news. Inexplicably in many other languages 'silly season' is called 'cucumber season'!

However, for thousands of young people August is not silly at all but very serious, because it is when GCSE, T Level, BTec and A level results are released. This is the time when future dreams can be dashed or come one step closer: apprenticeships, university places and job offers can all hinge on what is written on the result papers. It is no wonder that this can be a very stressful time for our young people. When as adults we try to help our young people at this time we can sometimes either make the mistake of minimising how important it is to them or make the opposite mistake of placing too much importance on them.

On the one hand, we can treat results day as just another part of 'silly season' – a chance for the media to be filled with claims that the exams are much too easy now or that no-one really cares about what qualifications you have. On the other hand, we can act as if failing to get the desired results means an end to any future prosperity and happiness. To get the balance right requires wisdom and a sense of perspective, and it is our job as adults of the community to help our young people to have that sense of perspective too.

It is hard to know how to shepherd our young people through this time, so we should to turn to God in prayer to ask him for wisdom and the right words to say, and also to ask him, as the Good Shepherd, to lead and guide our young people's thinking too. But one thing we should be reminding them is that, contrary to what the education system might suggest, our identity and our value is not dictated by those results.

So, a prayer for young people receiving results, from Liverpool Diocese, contains these words “May they know their worth and value is not based on academic achievement but on your great love for us.” And one from the Methodist church, to be said by the young person themselves: “Help me to remember that in your eyes, I am worth more than grades on a piece of paper.” These contain the wisdom that we all need to hear, that our value is not based on our achievements, whether they are academic, personal, or related to our employment or recreation. We are valuable because we are made in God's image and he loves each and every one of us equally and regardless of our achievements.

Psalm 23 reminds us that God, as our Good Shepherd, is with us through all our joys and our sorrows; rejoicing with us and comforting us as necessary. And so a prayer from the Church of England to be said by the young people says: “Help me to stay calm as I wait for news. Whatever happens, be with me, and help me to know the wisdom that comes from heaven.” Maybe that's a prayer you can say whatever your situation.

How much are you worth?

Here's my February article:

How much are you worth? According to the fount of academic excellence known as Google (although other founts are available and may differ!), the human body is worth anything from just under $1 to just over £1,000,000 for all the body parts (or more on the black market) via $160 for the chemical elements. This month around Valentine's Day many people will be using cards and gifts to express to their loved ones how much they value them, though I doubt that many will express that in monetary terms! A human being is perhaps the greatest example of something being worth more than the sum of its parts.

I hope that you think that you are worth more than £1,000,000, but there are many ways that we can be made to feel worthless. Adverts, even ones that proclaim that “you're worth it!”, are designed to make us feel inadequate or incomplete without whatever product they're selling. Society too gives out the message that you're only worth something if you're popular; or have the right sort of education or job; or have a good background; or live in the nice places; or own certain things; or contribute a certain amount to society; or believe whatever that month's socially acceptable views are. Valentine's Day too plays into this conditional valuing of human life suggesting that you are only worth something if you have a partner, and have had many partners.

So how can we assess how much we are worth? Well, one way we can do think is to think about it in economic terms: something is worth whatever someone will pay for it. For example, if I owned the Mona Lisa and put it on an online auction site, if the highest bid for it is £1 then that is how much the Mona Lisa is worth. But what about us humans? Paul tells us that we have been bought at a price (1 Corinthians 6:20), we have been redeemed or bought back by God. And what did he buy us back with? His own blood (Acts 20:28)! God, in Jesus, bought each of us with his blood. You are worth the life of the eternal God!!

But that then begs the question of what God bought us back from. The Bible reminds us that we have all sinned (Romans 3:23) and Jesus says that those who sin are slaves to sin (John 8:34). As the wages of sin is death (Romans 6:23), in order to redeem us from slavery to sin Jesus paid the price necessary, which was his death in our place. Therefore, “In [Jesus] we have redemption through [Jesus'] blood, the forgiveness of sins, in accordance with the riches of God’s grace that he lavished on us” (Ephesians 1:8).

But why did God pay such a high price for us? Because our sin separates us from him (Isaiah 59:2) yet because he loves us (1 John 4:9-10), he wants to be reconciled with us (2 Corinthians 5:18-19). To be reconciled with God we need to accept his offer of forgiveness and repent of our sins.

If God sent you a Valentine's Day card its picture would be of Jesus on the cross, and the caption would say “This is how much I love you. This is how much I think you're worth.”