I am the Rector of two of the three churches in the world dedicated to St Hybald, one of which (Hibaldstow) contains his remains. This blog is mainly for my monthly parish magazine articles.

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Showing posts with label humility. Show all posts
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Sunday, 30 August 2026

St Aidan: Flame of the North and Light for Today

Here's my sermon for today's Group Service at Redbourne, celebrating Aidan.


Picture by Tom Richardson from geograph.org.uk and wikicommons.org


1 Corinthians 9:16–19

For when I preach the gospel, I cannot boast, since I am compelled to preach. Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel! If I preach voluntarily, I have a reward; if not voluntarily, I am simply discharging the trust committed to me. What then is my reward? Just this: that in preaching the gospel I may offer it free of charge, and so not make full use of my rights as a preacher of the gospel.

Though I am free and belong to no one, I have made myself a slave to everyone, to win as many as possible.


John 13:16-20

Jesus said “Very truly I tell you, no servant is greater than his master, nor is a messenger greater than the one who sent him. Now that you know these things, you will be blessed if you do them.

“I am not referring to all of you; I know those I have chosen. But this is to fulfil this passage of Scripture: 'He who shared my bread has turned against me.'

“I am telling you now before it happens, so that when it does happen you will believe that I am who I am. Very truly I tell you, whoever accepts anyone I send accepts me; and whoever accepts me accepts the one who sent me.”



Today's service is focused on Aidan of Lindisfarne, who is commemorated in the church calendar on 31st August.

We don't know much about Aidan, but we do know that he came from the monastery on Iona.  That monastery was founded by Columba and became an important centre of religious practice and literacy.  Aidan was sent by the fifth Abbot of Iona, Ségéne, to help King Oswald bring Christianity to Northumbria. Oswald was also raised on Iona, and may have been friends with Aidan there.

This morning I want to draw out three aspects of Aidan's life and think about what they might mean for us today.


Creation

The first is Aidan's connection with creation.  Aidan belonged to the Celtic stream of Christianity, which again we know little of for sure, but there does seem to be a particular connection with the natural world.  Like the early monastic communities which were formed in the desert by people like Anthony of Egypt, Columba wanted a place away from the populated areas, away from the hustle and bustle of life which might distract him and his fellow monks from their connection with God.  When Oswald invited Aidan to set up a monastery in Northumbria, he didn't choose a place on the mainland next to Bamburgh, where Oswald's power base was, instead Aidan chose Lindisfarne, now known as Holy Island.  Aidan valued its peace and solitude when the tide was in, cutting it off from the mainland; and also the ease with which he could travel across when the tide was out.

However, unlike the desert, Lindisfarne was not just chosen for its peace and solitude, the environment itself was also aid to contemplation and worship.  Aidan has been said to be “the St Francis before St Francis”, which is why we started the service with a hymn based on Francis' words.  Aidan, along with others in the Celtic stream of Christianity, saw nature as participating in the worship of God as well as helping us to see truths about our Creator through his creation.  The Apostle Paul wrote in Romans 1:20 “God’s invisible qualities – his eternal power and divine nature – have been clearly seen, being understood from what has been made, so that people are without excuse.”

The prayer attributed to Aidan that's on the back of the service sheets [and at the bottom of this page] also illustrates how the rhythms of nature guided his schedule: when the tide was in and he was cut off from the world it reminded him that he was to be holy and set apart from God, and to make time to be with him; when the tide was out and he was connected to the world again it reminded him that he was to take that presence of God into the world, so that others might come to know God too.

For us, Aidan's spirituality reminds us of the importance of the natural world.  However, it also provides a reason for our care for the environment.  Too often the environmental movement bases it campaigning on one of two reasons.  It sometimes appeals to the selfish desire to live in a nice world, or for our children or grandchildren to live in a nice world.  Or it sometimes, either implicitly or explicitly, has a neo-pagan motivation saying that by damaging the environment we incur the wrath of nature deities like Mother Earth, and so we need to appease them by caring for the environment.

In contrast, Aidan's care for and appreciation of the natural world sprung from his belief that the world was created by a loving Creator, for us to enjoy and for our benefit; not just in providing us a place to live and with food to eat, but also to teach us about the Creator and so join in with the creation's praise of God.


Care for the poor

The second aspect of Aidan's life I want to highlight was his identification with and concern for the poor.  Many of the stories about Aidan speak about his humility and his rejection of personal wealth.  As Bede recorded, often when Aidan was given money he went to the slave market to purchase a slave’s freedom – and then also offered to educate them.

Two of the most famous stories about Aidan are about his humility and his concern for the poor.

At one Easter feast with Oswald there was a crowd of hungry, destitute people outside the castle, asking for food.  Under Aidan's influence, Oswald ordered that the feast should be taken out to the people, and that the silver dishes that it was served on should be broken up and distributed among them so that they could eat another day too.

Many years later, when Oswald's son Oswin was king, Oswin presented Aidan with a fine horse with royal trappings as a gift to help him on his journeys around Northumbria.  Almost immediately Aidan gave it away to a beggar he met on the road.  When Oswin found out, he was furious, but Aidan responded that the beggar was a son of God and therefore worth more than the son of a mare.  Oswin realised his pride and asked for forgiveness.

Aidan preferred walking on his missionary journeys rather than riding a horse, partly so that he could identify the exact needs of the people he encountered and minister to them in specific ways.  Paul's words in our first reading speak of him being a slave to all so that he might win as many as possible – Aidan had the same attitude.  Both of them could have demanded a certain status and respect because of their positions; Paul as an apostle and Aidan as a bishop; but both of them waived those rights in order to be better able to serve those they came across.  They were both following Jesus' example and his instructions to his disciples as we see in Mark 10:42-45
“You know that those who are regarded as rulers of the Gentiles lord it over them, and their high officials exercise authority over them.  Not so with you.  Instead, whoever wants to become great among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first must be slave of all.  For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

Now we are not apostles or bishops, but many of us have positions of authority or leadership, even if that's in a small matter or for a short time.  Aidan's example challenges us about how we use that authority or leadership or decision-making.  But that servant-leadership is not to be done because it is the most effective way to be productive, or even because it's what Jesus did.  Instead it needs to be done from a heart that sees everyone as someone who is made in the image and likeness of God, otherwise our leadership becomes manipulative and our charity becomes condescending and patronising.

Oswin realised that his pride stopped him seeing the image of God in everyone around him, perhaps our pride too stops us seeing people as Aidan did – what are our horses that we need to give up?


Evangelism

The final aspect of Aidan's life should be the most obvious, but it often gets overlooked in favour of his connection with creation, or his humility and care for the poor.

And that is of course, that Aidan's primary concern was to tell people about the gospel - the good news about salvation and life through repentance and faith in Jesus.  That was the reason Oswald asked Ségéne to send someone from Iona to Northumbria – so that his people could know for themselves the God who Oswald had come to faith in on Iona.

Aidan had that same compulsion to preach the gospel that Paul wrote about in our first reading: “Woe to me if I do not preach the gospel!”  That was the reason Aidan avoided the distractions of the busy-ness of life, or of possessions.  That was the reason he liked to walk; so that he could meet more people and spend more time getting to know them and talking to them about Jesus.  It was the reason that he was fearless in standing up to kings, because he was on a mission from the King of kings.  It was the reason he spent time training up priests, so that they too could go out and tell more people the gospel.  And it was probably because he trained and sent Hybald that Christianity first came to this area – and that we are here now.

However, Aidan wasn't successful everywhere he went.  As Jesus says in our reading from John's gospel – he himself would be rejected and so we shouldn't be surprised if we who follow him are rejected too.  But he also promised that those who accept us accept him too.  And those who accepted Aidan's message did so partly because they saw Jesus reflected in Aidan's life.

Aidan was not the first monk that Ségéne sent from Iona.  A monk called Corman had been sent, but after a few months he returned home complaining about the stubborn, uncivilised people he was supposed to serve.  Apparently, Aidan quietly enquired if he perhaps should have spoken more gently to them, giving them the milk of the gospel as to small babies. And Aidan was sent to replace him.

We're not all called to be missionaries, we're not all called to what Columba called 'white martyrdom' that is leaving everything to go where God calls us to go.  But all who call themselves Christian are called to the Great Commission of telling others about the gospel – the good news of about salvation and life through repentance and faith in Jesus.  Aidan gives us an example of not being distracted from this calling by other things, but also of making sure that its not just our words that point people towards Jesus but our actions as well.


Conclusion

The name Aidan means 'flame' in Gaelic, and so he is sometimes called “The Flame of the North.”  He is credited with bringing light to Northumbria in what used to be called the Dark Ages.  Because of him literacy became more widespread; kings gradually became less like warlords and more like just rulers; and care for the poor became part of what a king should do.  Of course, there are many examples of the opposite of those both then and right up to now.  But this change is only possible because of the light which Aidan brought, which is the light of the gospel of Jesus.

Ultimately, creation is only worth caring for because it is the creation of God.  Ultimately, people are only worth caring for because they are made in the image and likeness of God.  Ultimately, we are only equal because our value is not due to our status, our education, our wealth or our physical attributes, but because we are equally loved by God.  Aidan lived by this light, and he dedicated his life to passing this light on.

If he were here today, he might ask, humbly, gently and lovingly: is this the light you live by and do you know Jesus, the Light of the World?


Prayer attributed to Aidan


Thursday, 26 March 2026

Lent Reflections 2026: Palm Sunday and Humility



We have spent the past five weeks thinking about humility, and looking to Jesus as being both the exemplar of humility, and also the one whose Spirit enables us to to become more humble.

Today, we start Holy Week by remembering Jesus' entry into Jerusalem a few days before his death and resurrection. The Gospels record how Jesus came riding into the city, whilst the crowds lined the road, waving branches in celebration and laying their cloaks on the road as a carpet. They praised him as God's representative and hailed him as king. We call it Jesus' Triumphal Entry; not only does he enter in triumph but his entry is reminiscent of that of the Roman Emperor.

This doesn't seem to be very humble!! It's sometimes said that Jesus is showing his humility by riding a donkey rather than a horse, but the meaning of this (as we see from the quote from Zechariah 9:9) is that Jesus is coming gently and in peace, rather than on a horse, which symbolises war. The Zechariah quote also says that it is the king who comes on the donkey.

So, Jesus is clearly coming as king. He could have walked into Jerusalem along with everyone else; he could even have slipped into Jerusalem unnoticed, as he did in John 7:10. Instead, he deliberately sets up the situation in which through symbolism he claims to be the Messianic King, coming to the capital city Jerusalem to claim his throne. How can this be the actions of someone who is humble?

The answer comes most vividly as we read the second set of petitions in the Litany of Humility: freedom from the fear of being humiliated, despised, rebuked, calumniated, forgotten, ridiculed, wronged and suspected. Jesus knew he was the Messiah, and he knew that that meant that he would “be delivered over to the chief priests and the teachers of the law. They will condemn him to death and will hand him over to the Gentiles, who will mock him and spit on him, flog him and kill him” (Mark 10:33-34). He knew that his throne in Jerusalem would be the cross – above his head would be the words “Jesus of Nazareth, the King of the Jews” (John 19:19)

Jesus “humbled himself by becoming obedient to death – even death on a cross!” (Philippians 2:8), he was obedient to his Father, but he also humbled himself by putting our need for salvation above his desires for praise and even for life itself.   The proof of God's amazing love is that while we were sinners, Jesus died for us (Romans 5:8) – Jesus was hated so we could be loved.

Jesus rides into Jerusalem proclaiming himself as the Messianic King. But he would subvert the expectation of what that meant by pointing to what the Old Testament said about the coming Messiah. In doing so, he would show us what true humility looks like.

“This is our God, the Servant King. He calls us now to follow him.”




Wednesday, 25 March 2026

Lent Reflections 2026: The Litany of Humility 5

 



On our parish News Sheets this Lent, we're looking through the “Litany of Humility.”

A litany is a form of prayer with a repeated responsive petition and in the Book of Common Prayer, there is a litany that is “to be sung or said after Morning Prayer, upon Sundays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.”

The Litany of Humility, at least in this form, was written by Cardinal Rafael Merry del Val, the Secretary of State to Pope Pius X, in the early Twentieth Century. C. S. Lewis found this prayer particularly helpful, and many people use it as part of their daily prayer life, especially during Lent.



O Jesus, meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being loved, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being extolled, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being honoured, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being praised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being preferred to others, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being approved, deliver me, O Jesus.

From the fear of being humiliated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of suffering rebukes, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being calumniated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being ridiculed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being wronged, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being suspected, deliver me, O Jesus.

That others may be loved more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be chosen and I set aside, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be preferred to me in everything, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.


The Litany of Humility starts with asking Jesus to deliver us from un-humble desires, and it ends with asking for the grace of humble desires. In particular, we ask for the grace to desire that others 'succeed' more than us. The Litany takes us on a journey of ever-deepening humility: we start by asking to be delivered from the desire for praise; then for deliverance from the fear of disapproval; finally we pray that others would be preferred to us.

Gore Vidal famously said “Whenever a friend succeeds, a little something in me dies” which highlights how fragile our self-esteem can be especially when others do well.  And if this is true for our friends who we care about, how much more is it true for those we don't?  We might be able to cope with not receiving the praise we're due; we might even be able to cope with being despised; but it's really hard to want others to be loved, esteemed, praised and preferred more than us.  Humility is not just about being content with what we do or don't get, it is also about wanting others to succeed. And so we have to pray for the grace to desire it.

It is a grace because it is something we don't deserve.  We are naturally competitive, our instincts are self-centred and self-interested. James writes “What causes fights and quarrels among you?  Don’t they come from your desires that battle within you? You desire but do not have, so you kill. You covet but you cannot get what you want, so you quarrel and fight” (James 4:1-2).  Our fallen human nature deserves eternal punishment, but not only does God mercifully not demand that punishment from us, to those who trust in Jesus he graciously gives his Holy Spirit, to transform those desires into conformity with his own.  “Those who live as their human nature tells them to, have their minds controlled by what human nature wants. Those who live as the Spirit tells them to, have their minds controlled by what the Spirit wants” (Romans 8:5 Good News Translation).

So again, Jesus is our model.  Although he is God, he emptied himself and became human, and more than that, he became a servant, who was content to die to take the punishment we deserve for our human nature (Philippians 2:5-8 and Mark 10:45).  So if he can lay aside his divine glory so that we can be forgiven and exalted, we should also lay aside our petty pretensions and rejoice when others increase and we decrease.  However, his example is an impossibly high standard for us to follow so we need his grace, his Holy Spirit, to change us into his likeness.

We even need his grace to help us to desire to be like him. We can easily say the Litany of Humility without really meaning it, or adding 'exceptions' to the petitions.

Jesus, grant us the grace to desire humility, whatever the cost.

Tuesday, 17 March 2026

Lent Reflections 2026: The Litany of Humility 4




On our parish News Sheets this Lent, we're looking through the “Litany of Humility.”

A litany is a form of prayer with a repeated responsive petition and in the Book of Common Prayer, there is a litany that is “to be sung or said after Morning Prayer, upon Sundays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.”

The Litany of Humility, at least in this form, was written by Cardinal Rafael Merry del Val, the Secretary of State to Pope Pius X, in the early Twentieth Century. C. S. Lewis found this prayer particularly helpful, and many people use it as part of their daily prayer life, especially during Lent.



O Jesus, meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being loved, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being extolled, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being honoured, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being praised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being preferred to others, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being approved, deliver me, O Jesus.

From the fear of being humiliated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of suffering rebukes, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being calumniated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being ridiculed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being wronged, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being suspected, deliver me, O Jesus.

That others may be loved more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be chosen and I set aside, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be preferred to me in everything, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.



Alongside the fear of disapproval, in the second section of petitions we also ask Jesus to deliver us from the fear of being calumniated, wronged and suspected. These are similar to the fear of disapproval but carry with them the sense of unjust suffering. But again we're not asking to be delivered from unjust suffering, but we're asking to not let the fear of unjust suffering stop us from following God's ways.

This is a great reminder that becoming a Christian doesn't mean that our life becomes trouble-free. Indeed in some ways the opposite is true. Jesus tells us that following him means denying ourselves and taking up our cross (Mark 8:34), and that we will face unjust persecution just as he did (John 15:20). This means that not only will we face the normal difficulties of life, but that we will also face suffering when we do what is right and good. When we live as God wants us to live, and share our faith as he has commanded us to do, we may encounter not just ridicule, but our motives might be twisted and it may result in things like broken relationships, loss of social standing, or damage to careers.

Peter wrote “if you should suffer for what is right, you are blessed...it is better, if it is God’s will, to suffer for doing good than for doing evil” (1 Peter 3:14,17). If we are afraid of such consequences we may shy away from living out our faith as whole-heartedly as we should.

One way God answers this prayer for deliverance from fear is to give us examples, both in the Bible and throughout the history of the Church, of those for whom following God's ways led to suffering. Stephen was the first of many Christian martyrs (Acts 6-7); Paul speaks of his sufferings for the gospel in 2 Corinthians 11:23-27; in Revelation, John describes himself as a “companion in the suffering” (Revelation 1:9) along with the churches he is writing to.

Another way God helps us is to show us that we don't have to 'grin and bear' this suffering, or, as Kipling would have it, to treat Triumph and Disaster as if they are the same. Instead, God caused words of anger, frustration and bemoaning to be recorded as part of Holy Scripture – indeed there is a whole book called Lamentations! The Psalms in particular give expression to these feelings: Psalm 13:1-2 says “How long will my enemy triumph over me?”; Psalm 73:3,13,14 says “I envied the arrogant when I saw the prosperity of the wicked. Surely in vain I have kept my heart pure...All day long I have been afflicted”.

However, most famously Psalm 22 starts with “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?”, which takes us to the ultimate example of undeserved suffering: Jesus. He is the reason Peter says we should suffer for doing good. And if we share in his sufferings we will also share in his glory (Romans 8:17).

Thursday, 12 March 2026

Lent Reflections 2026: The Litany of Humility 3





On our parish News Sheets this Lent, we're looking through the “Litany of Humility.”

A litany is a form of prayer with a repeated responsive petition and in the Book of Common Prayer, there is a litany that is “to be sung or said after Morning Prayer, upon Sundays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.”

The Litany of Humility, at least in this form, was written by Cardinal Rafael Merry del Val, the Secretary of State to Pope Pius X, in the early Twentieth Century. C. S. Lewis found this prayer particularly helpful, and many people use it as part of their daily prayer life, especially during Lent.


O Jesus, meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being loved, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being extolled, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being honoured, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being praised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being preferred to others, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being approved, deliver me, O Jesus.

From the fear of being humiliated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of suffering rebukes, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being calumniated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being ridiculed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being wronged, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being suspected, deliver me, O Jesus.

That others may be loved more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be chosen and I set aside, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be preferred to me in everything, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.



The second section of petitions ask Jesus to deliver us from the fear of certain things, though we're not talking about phobias. It makes sense for us to want to be delivered from ungodly or un-humble desires, as we pray in the first section But why pray to be delivered from fears?

The answer comes from looking at what those fears are: being humiliated, despised, rebuked and ridiculed. These are all opposites of the desires for praise and approval in the first petition. Humility means not just that we are happy not to have acclaim, but that we are content even if we have the opposite, even if we are despised and disapproved of.

But we are not asking that we are not humiliated, instead we are asking to be delivered from the fear of being humiliated. We are asking that the fear of disapproval doesn't dictate our actions, or lack of actions. Just as the desire for popularity and approval can lead us to act wrongly and not act rightly, so too can the fear of disapproval or ridicule.

In some ways the fear of disapproval is more powerful than the desire for approval. We often do things that get no recognition, and although that is disappointing, it doesn't stop us from doing them again. We can also do things in the knowledge that we will get no recognition for them, and we can even do things deliberately so that we get no recognition. As long as we don't act this way for smug self-satisfaction and a sense of superiority over 'approval-seekers', these are humble ways of behaving. However, we are more reluctant to do things deliberately that will draw criticism, even if it the right thing to do. The reason good people remain silent, allowing evil to triumph, is often because of the fear of the repercussions. In extreme times that might be persecution, loss of livelihood or even death, but more commonly good people remain silent or don't act because of a fear of disapproval or ridicule.

This is particularly seen when it comes to matters of faith. People are often afraid of whole-heartedly committing to being a Christian, because they know that that will mean a huge change in their lives, and they don't want to be seen as 'radical' or 'fundamentalist.' So instead they say they are a Christian but don't let it affect the way they live. Fear also stops people sharing their faith with their non-believing family and friends, whether that's the fear of not knowing answers to difficult questions, and therefore looking stupid, or again the fear of ridicule.

The apostle Paul wrote that he continued to preach Christ crucified even though it was a stumbling-block to Jews and foolishness to Gentiles (1 Corinthians 1:18-31), and he suffered much for doing so (2 Corinthians 11:23-27). And the Litany also helps us become more like Jesus, who also was not afraid to speak and act even though it led to him being despised and rejected.

Wednesday, 4 March 2026

Lent Reflections 2026: The Litany of Humility 2



On our parish News Sheets this Lent, we're going to look through the “Litany of Humility.”

A litany is a form of prayer with a repeated responsive petition and in the Book of Common Prayer, there is a litany that is “to be sung or said after Morning Prayer, upon Sundays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.”

The Litany of Humility, at least in this form, was written by Cardinal Rafael Merry del Val, the Secretary of State to Pope Pius X, in the early Twentieth Century. C. S. Lewis found this prayer particularly helpful, and many people use it as part of their daily prayer life, especially during Lent.

O Jesus, meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being loved, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being extolled, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being honoured, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being praised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being preferred to others, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being approved, deliver me, O Jesus.

From the fear of being humiliated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of suffering rebukes, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being calumniated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being ridiculed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being wronged, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being suspected, deliver me, O Jesus.

That others may be loved more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be chosen and I set aside, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be preferred to me in everything, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.



This week we're looking at the second four petitions in the first section of the Litany of Humility. The desire to be praised and the desire to be approved are very similar to the first four desires that we thought about last week. However, for all of them it is worth reflecting on the question “by whom?” The assumption (as it says later on in the Litany) is that we are asking to be delivered from the desire of being praised, approved, esteemed etc. “in the opinion of the world”, i.e. it is seeking the approval of other people that leads to bad actions and a lack of humility.

Jesus criticised those who prayed, fasted and gave charity “to be honoured by others” (Matthew 6) calling them 'hypocrites', which carries the sense of play-actors or pretenders. In a lot of his letters, Paul is dealing with a situation where people claiming to be apostles distort the gospel message in order to gain popularity with their hearers. He warns “For the time will come when people will not put up with sound doctrine. Instead, to suit their own desires, they will gather round them a great number of teachers to say what their itching ears want to hear. They will turn their ears away from the truth and turn aside to myths” (2 Timothy 4:3-4). Paul knew that the gospel message is not always easy to hear and won't be popular but he also knew whose praise he desired: “Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ” (Galatians 1:10).

Whether we're proclaiming the gospel by our lips or by our life we should be aiming to please God, to hear him say to us “Well done, good and faithful servant!” (Matthew 25:21). If we seek the approval of others we will inevitably go astray, but if we seek to please God, we will do what is right just as Jesus did (John 5:30).

Within these second four petitions, two are slightly different: the desire to be preferred to others and to be consulted. These reflect the desire for our opinions to be heard, with the implication that they should also be agreed with. We easily fall into the trap of thinking that our opinion is held by all 'right-minded' people, and we therefore dismiss or scoff other people's views. Our conversations often involve us not really listening to other people, but instead waiting to say our piece, and then looking around for the approval and agreement of others. This is particularly a danger for those who have positions of leadership or responsibility, especially those who have a literal or metaphorical pulpit!

We need the humility to listen not just to other people, but primarily to God. He declares “my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways...As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts” (Isaiah 55:8-9). Jesus has the words of eternal life (John 6:68), sometimes his teaching was hailed as authoritative (Mark 1:27) but often, and ultimately, he was rejected (Luke 19:47). But he promises that if we allow his word to be preferred to our own we will be fruitful (Matthew 13:23).

Thursday, 26 February 2026

Lent Reflections 2026: The Litany of Humility 1




On our  parish News Sheets this Lent, we're going to look through the “Litany of Humility.”
A litany is a form of prayer with a repeated responsive petition and in the Book of Common Prayer, there is a litany that is “to be sung or said after Morning Prayer, upon Sundays, Wednesdays, and Fridays.”

The Litany of Humility, at least in this form, was written by Cardinal Rafael Merry del Val, the Secretary of State to Pope Pius X, in the early Twentieth Century. C. S. Lewis found this prayer particularly helpful, and many people use it as part of their daily prayer life, especially during Lent.


O Jesus, meek and humble of heart, Hear me.

From the desire of being esteemed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being loved, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being extolled, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being honoured, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being praised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being preferred to others, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being consulted, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the desire of being approved, deliver me, O Jesus.

From the fear of being humiliated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being despised, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of suffering rebukes, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being calumniated, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being forgotten, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being ridiculed, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being wronged, deliver me, O Jesus.
From the fear of being suspected, deliver me, O Jesus.

That others may be loved more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be esteemed more than I, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That, in the opinion of the world, others may increase and I may decrease, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be chosen and I set aside, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be praised and I go unnoticed, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may be preferred to me in everything, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.
That others may become holier than I, provided that I may become as holy as I should, Jesus, grant me the grace to desire it.



The Litany of Humility is divided into three sections, each of which we'll sub-divide into two, so this week we'll look at the first four petitions. But before we think about them, we need to note that the Litany starts with asking Jesus to hear us, and addresses him as the one who is meek and humble of heart. As we pray this prayer for humility we should remember that we are asking to become more Christ-like. Jesus is the model we are to emulate, so if we want to become more like him, a good starting place is to read the gospels to see how his humility showed in his words and deeds. But more than being a model for us, Jesus also gives us his Holy Spirit to change us into his likeness (2 Corinthians 3:18).

This first section of petitions are for Jesus to deliver us from various desires. When we ask to be freed from desire, we are not asking for it in the same way that Eastern spiritualities like Buddhism do, that seek to overcome material desires and personal wants. Nor are we wanting to be nonchalent about everything. The things being desired are all good things, but we are asking Jesus to deliver us from seeing them as being the aim and focus of our lives.

We all want to be loved and honoured, but desiring them as the aim of our lives can have dreadful consequences; think of dictators past and present – their desire to be loved and honoured leads to oppressive and coercive regimes, where all opposition is quashed and silenced to give the impression of universal approval. Even in democracies, out of a desire for being honoured, extolled and esteemed, politicians can choose to do what is popular rather than what is right.

Not many of us will be in the position of politicians and rulers, but none of us are immune from the desire for honour, popularity and love, and aiming to achieve those desires can lead us to ignore what is right. Jesus reminds us that adultery starts with lust (Matthew 5:27-28) – the mis-directed desire for being loved. And in lots of other, seemingly minor, ways our desire to be honoured affects how we behave. But perhaps the main way it affects us brings us back to the purpose of the Litany – to become more humble.

This is because desiring to be esteemed, loved, extolled and honoured necessarily involves airbrushing our lives, covering up those parts of us that would make people detest, despise, denounce and decry us. We are all too aware of our faults, and we are all too ready to expose the faults of others, so we try to hide them from each other. In short, we lack the humility to be honest with each other. But we cannot fool God. He knows our desires and he knows the actions that spring from those desires, to him all hearts are open and all desires known. He sees the depths of our hearts, but amazingly he still loves us. And because of that love, because he doesn't reject us because of our faults, we can have confidence to ask him to deliver us from those desires.

Monday, 28 November 2016

Christmas Playlist. 1: Mary's Song – What is God like?

Four songs that bring you to the heart of Christmas
1: Mary's Song – What is God like?

This Advent in our weekly sheets we're going to be looking at the four songs of the first Christmas, which were heard before, during and after the birth of the baby who lies at the heart of the real Christmas. The reflection will be adapted from Alistair Begg's book, 'Christmas Playlist' (buy it here. This week we're looking at Mary's Song – What is God like?

After discovering she is pregnant, Mary goes to the home of Zechariah and her relative, Elizabeth. While she is there, Mary breaks out into song, the first Christmas song in history (Luke 1:46-55), also known as the Magnificat. This is a song not about herself but about God and she describes God using two words: mindful (nothing to do with the Buddhist-based practice of mindfulness) and mighty.

Mary sings that God has been mindful of her even though she seems to be insignificant (v48). She glorifies – focuses on the greatness of – the Lord because although she may be very little in the eyes of the world, she is valuable in the eyes of the One who made the world. Mary also rejoices that God has been mindful of his people, Israel. Around 2,000 years before Mary sang, the God about whom she sang had made great promises to Abraham saying that his descendants would become a great nation who would be a blessing to all nations. Throughout the Old Testament, God reminded Abraham's descendants again and again that he remembered them and would keep his promises. He said he would do this through a son and Mary recognised that it was her son that was the sign that God had remembered his people and would fulfil his promises to them. Here is the God of Christmas, of history. He is a God who knows you, and he cares about you, and he makes promises to you, and he acts to help you.

Secondly, Mary sings that God is mighty, mightier than all the rulers of the earth. But he sometimes also uses his power to take away from us the things that make us think that we are mightier than we truly are, and that make us forget the God who is mightier than we are. He scatters the proud so that they can become humble. And then he lifts them up. He helps those who are humble enough to say I don't actually have it all together. I don't have all my questions answered. I have struggles that I need help with.


So what do you think about when you think about God? Mary might well have answered that question God is mindful of us and more mighty than us. And the truth that God is both all-caring and all-powerful made her heart “rejoice” - and it's a truth that causes hearts to rejoice still today.