Here's my article for the May magazines:
The first day of May is often said to be the first day of spring,
where the blustery April showers are left behind in favour of fresh
spring breezes. Spring, like Easter brings with it thoughts of new
life. May is also the month when the church remembers St Augustine
of Canterbury, a missionary who came to the British Isles in 569 AD
to help spread the message about Jesus, and subsequently became the
first Archbishop of Canterbury. Both these events have been in my
mind in the last couple of weeks and have linked together.
Although Christianity was practised in Britain before he came,
Augustine brought a new vigour to the task of spreading the gospel.
He was sent by Pope Gregory the Great, who according to Bede, saw
some British slaves in a Roman market and on seeing their pale faces
and blond hair asked who they were. He was told they were Angles, to
which he responded “non Angli, sed angeli” - not Angles but
angels! It was this that inspired him with a desire to send a mission
to the Angles.
The
new life of spring echoed a new chapter in my family's life as we
anticipated the birth of twins in September. Unfortunately there was
a complication with the pregnancy and, despite an
operation, both twins died at 18 weeks gestation. But the
expectation of new life was fulfilled in a more complete way than we
imagined as James and Jacob, as we named them, entered the new life
that is a central part of our Christian belief. “For we believe
that Jesus died and rose again, and so we believe that God will bring
with Jesus those who have fallen asleep in him...And so we will be
with the Lord forever” (1 Thessalonian 4:14, 17b).
We have received many
messages of support and prayers, for which we are most grateful.
However there's one message that we occasionally hear which strikes
an odd chord, and that is words to the effect that James and Jacob
died because God needs more angels. This springs from a folk belief
that when people die, and especially babies, they become angels. My
thought on hearing this said to me was a version of of Gregory's
aphorism: “non angeli, sed sancti” - not angels but saints!
James and Jacob, like all human beings, are made in the image and
likeness of God. The angels are God's servants but through faith in
Jesus humans can become his children and his children are saints.
The comments about our
'angel babies' are well-intentioned, and we are grateful for the love that inspires them, but there is surely a greater
comfort in the truth that they are saints; they have the eternal life
with God that we also can receive by faith in Jesus. Whereas it is
almost impossible to know for certain whether or not someone who has
died will have eternal life, babies who die will, in God's mercy,
inherit eternal life. So if you have lost a baby in whatever way,
either before or after birth, take comfort in the truth that they are
not angels, but saints.
[see also my Advent blogposts on The Four Last Things: death, judgement, heaven and hell]
